I’m not a feminist anymore

I need to be honest with myself and the truth of it is, I don’t identify as a feminist any more. ..well that lasted.. I can’t stand it any longer; the hypocrisy, the ignorance and the power-imbalance. I feel like I was the only one wanting equality, not a matriarchal society. I heard the cries of…

The trend of misandry

I’ve been noticing more and more people popularizing misandry and I’m becoming more and more pissed off. I feel like it’s become a trend among my generation; doting the “i” in misandry with a heart is commonplace, girls/women gush about hating men as if they were gushing about new shoes. When talking to my husband about…

New Beginnings

So much has happened this past year that I feel like a whole new person. I was in therapy for 7 months, I got my diploma in graphic design, I celebrated my second wedding anniversary and most of all, I’m happier with who I am. I said to my husband, “before we move I want…

sick of #fitfam

I think something needs to be said about our idols and heroes in todays society. Everyday on IG and FB I’m noticing men and women idolizing fitness moguls and actresses/actors. What does that say about our society? That we are obsessed with fitness & fame, sexiness, body image, self deprecation or loathing and ultimately struggling…

Letter to a Deadman: Part One

I’m writing you this letter because whether you know it or not you have been apart of my life for a very long time. You have become my monster, my demon, my biggest fear and my biggest enemy. You have weaved yourself into every corner of my life. You are the fuel in my fire,…